I love pretty clothes. Pretty things in general make me happy, but I loooove pretty clothes. Whether it’s perfect Tailored Sportsmans or an embroidered blouse or a flattering dress, it makes me happy to see. Even happier to touch.
I also love comfortable clothes. Comfortable rooms and soft blankets too, but I loooove comfy clothes. Leggings aren’t really my comfy jam, but I can’t resist those fleece-lined baggy sweatpants and oversized sweatshirts.
This poses a bit of a dilemma for me: every time I go shopping- regardless of what I walked in there to buy- I walk out of the store with (a) a dress (b) sweats or (c) both. My closet has a whole wall of dresses (arranged from casual to formal rather than by color), and a whole rack of sweats.
Clothes that are actually appropriate for my casual office? Those take up about half a rack in the back.
The only reason I even have any appropriate clothes to wear to work is because of my mother. Half of my everyday clothes are hand-me-downs, and the other half were gifts from her. Without her I would be the best dressed hobo lady at work.
So this post is really two things: it’s a lament about my own inability to buy my own darn clothes, and it’s an ode to my ever-providing mother.
I try so hard, Reader, I really do. I make lists of needed purchases- a solid cardigan, a nice blouse- and I march into the outlets ready to buy. I grab all those necessaries and I head to the changing room, and I make sure it fits. And then I put it all on the rack because booooooring.
But that dress over there? It has sequins! Never mind that I don’t have any formal events in the next foreseeable future, I’m sure something will come up. I could always plan my own gala, right?
And if there’s a loungewear/pajama section, I’m gone. I know I don’t need another hoodie, but do we as humans really need anything besides food, water, and shelter? Why should I deprive myself of that hoodie? Don’t you want me to be happy?!
Afterwards I walk out of the store whistling, sequined dress and XXL sweatshirt in tow. Can’t even feel bad about it because sparkles and cozy!
To a certain extent, my momma totally encourages this. We love dress shopping together, and she sometimes will see something “that would just look perfect” and I get a lovely package a few days later (be jealous, my mom is the best ever). In fact, most of my dresses came from her. She also knows my adoration of comfy clothes and regularly gifts me with VS gift cards. In total, she keeps me well stocked in my favorite duds.
But thank goodness she has more sense than I do. All but two of my cardigans were hers at one point, and all of my blouses and sweaters were bought with her. Using her mom voice to say that we are only looking at sweaters that day is always necessary. She has the self control so I don’t have to. How will I ever learn?!
Shoes: the same. All either came direct from her closet or were bought with her approval. Thank goodness for a momma with fantastic style and the same shoe size. We can share everything except pants and short dresses- she’s a tiny little Greek woman and I’m 5’9 in flats.
I’m (very) slowly starting to even out. My one fashion rule is to not wear sweatpants out of the house, and I’ve stuck with that for long enough that I don’t want to break it. Even if it’s just jeans and a fleece, I will not wear sweatpants out. This means I need those “middle” clothes for every day, and it’s turned into a bit of a uniform.
Boots, jeans, tee, fleece quarter zip. I have those fleeces in 5 colors now (and before you ask, yes, they all came from my momma) and I make an appearance at Target whenever they do sales on basic tees.
Is it glamorous? Nope. Do I look like a mom from an LL Bean catalog? Totally. Do I still clean up nice when needed? You bet your butt I do.
But only because Mom is there to compensate for my terrible shopping skills.
Do you and your mom share clothes? Or would you never be caught dead in anything from her closet?
My mom is super fashionable and I am not. We’ve never been the same size, but she has gifted me lots of fashionable things. I’m finally having some ability to shop for myself and dress okay and I’m 30. Professional wardrobe? Non-existent because my office is super casual.
I have a super casual office too, and thank goodness for that. Every time I have to wear a suit I feel like a dressed up monkey!
Can I please borrow your mom to dress me?! If I get this job I applied for I am going to need a whole new wardrobe…. too-big jeans and target long sleeve shirts are not going to cut it.
The only “professional” clothes I have (which admittedly there’s not many) all came from her!
Keeping my fingers crossed for the new job for you!!
Clothes are amazing. My motto re: clothes (and everything else) is: if it’s in your budget, buy what makes you happy. And for me, that is also comfy sweats and things that are pretty xD
I agree wholeheartedly! We make money so that we can use it on things that make us happy, not just for the sake of having money. And it just so happens that pretty things make us happy 🙂
You are a girl after my own heart~
May I make a recommendation? NY&Company makes a pull-on pant that’s not too pricey and totally work appropriate. I wear them all the time, it’s like wearing pjs at work!
That’s a totally awesome recommendation, I’ll definitely have to check those out!
Love the collection of North face fleeces, those are my favorite 🙂
I like to think they’re a step up from hoodies! And they’re so nice and cozy.
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Agreed! I sleep in mine on really cold nights
I love clothes, and my mom loves clothes. We share clothes all the time. I hate shopping though. It’s a pain in the butt! I prefer online shopping so I can see how it hangs on the model.
At my work, there is pressure to dress well, which is a positive and negative. I like wearing nice clothes, but sometimes I just want to be lazy and not try at all. So sometimes good, sometimes bad.
I used to be a shopaholic, but I find better stuff in mom’s closet nowadays 😉
My office is mega casual which is good and bad too- there’s never any pressure, but none of my nice clothes get any mileage.