Blog Hop: The Horse You Bought

Y’all know I’m a sucker for a blog hop, so I just had to jump in on this one from Cathryn at Two and a Half Horses after seeing L’s post.

We all know that Frankie has grown and progressed a TON from when I bought him. Let’s take a trip down memory lane and talk about it some more.

Bought: end of March, 2016

Doin’ some jomps in our trial ride
His Coggins pic, looking mighty cute

Here’s what his ad said when I bought him:

“He is Eventing at the Novice level and has the ability for much more. This kind natured horse is quiet and easy going, with good movement and a super jump. He goes XC quietly in a snaffle and will jump whatever you point him at. He is also a good Foxhunter. A competitive horse suitable for an amateur.”

And you know what? That was entirely accurate. Honest, quiet, sweet, and athletic. A genuinely good egg. In short- exactly what I was looking for!

However, he was inexperienced in several ways. He was started quite late (as a 6yo) and had done relatively little until he was 8 or 9. By the time I bought him, he had roughly 12-18 months of consistent training. He was nicely broke and very willing, but didn’t really know how to use his body to best effect (especially over fences). While I think his late start is certainly good for his long-term soundness, I think it took him as long as it did to figure out his jumping form because he came to it so late. Luckily he was big enough and naturally powerful enough to step into the 1m jumper ring pretty quickly.


Which he was also brand new to. His first show with us was a week-long A rated show where he was stalled the whole time, at a height that was new to both of us. Bit of a trial by fire. For the first full year or so, he would land off of every jump and stall a bit- he didn’t ever think to continue on to another fence unless explicitly told to. I had to override to everything since he didn’t have the know-how to maintain a powerful collected stride. It made combos tricky since those were also brand new to him.

In a nutshell- he was a forgiving, fun, inexperienced horse who had lots of ability and lots to learn to be able to use it.

Fast forward to 2018.

The most handsome angel
Show pro, anywhere we go (sick flow)
Happy boy totally knows the drill now when we walk in the ring

To say he’s a different horse than I bought two years ago couldn’t be more true. He’s (clearly) figured out his body over the jumps, and we haven’t found the upper limits of his scope yet. He says yes to all of it with that same happy face. We went from struggle-bussing over 1m, to easily doing the 1.15m with me and 1.20m with a pro in the irons. He’s learned how to stay powerful and collected so we have lots of options on course, he lands looking for the next jump, and he knows that the start bell means it’s time for zoomies. He’s an absolute professional in the jumper ring. He’s extremely well-broke on the flat with lots of buttons, and we can throw him in any ring and know that he’ll go around. He’s that fancy horse I could never afford, and I’m so proud and grateful that we put in the work and time to bring out that hidden potential.

He’s also a little less forgiving now that the jumps are bigger. He expects me to carry my weight and give him a good ride, or at least not an actively awful one. Now that we know how to rate our stride, he gets (justifiably) mad when I try to gun him at a jump. Sorry bro, old habits die hard. He does also prefer an active ride still- making the wrong decision is still much better in his book than making no decision. Of course, we all prefer the right decision. Working on it.

What’s the same? The rest. The sweetness, the kindness in his eye, his quiet confidence. That’s what drew me to him within the first 5 minutes of seeing him, and that’s what draws me to him now.

PC- Tracy

He’s still the horse that thrives on attention, loves to come in for smooches, struts when he knows he did good, and that I can trust around children. That went XC schooling on a loopy rein, giving a lead to all the newbies. That happily stands for an hour of groomies when his mom is too tired to ride. That can have a week off, and then walk out of his stall foot-perfect.

When I bought him, my tentative plan was to use him as a step-up horse- spend a couple years moving up until we reached as far as he could go, then sell him and use those funds to bring in a new mount.

Um, yeah. No.

I’m open to leasing him out down the road, but homeboy is not for sale.

So that’s another big difference: the horse I bought was not intended to be a forever horse.

When I’m so nervous I could puke, and he just quietly comes in for snugs as I’m tacking up…yeah buddy. You can stay as long as you like.

He’s enjoying his vacation season (he’s pretty sure that Mom getting married is the BEST THING EVAR OMG LIFE IS SO EASY), but I’m beyond excited to get back in the saddle and explore new adventures with him. He may be different from the horse I bought, but in all the right ways. I would buy him again a thousand times over.

17 thoughts on “Blog Hop: The Horse You Bought

    • hellomylivia 09/17/2018 / 10:15 am

      He’s the cool one, I’m just along for the ride 😉


  1. Rachel - For Want of a Horse 09/11/2018 / 8:31 am

    No, no, NO Frankie is never allowed to be sold! I cannot imagine Frankie without Olivia or Olivia without Frankie! I can’t get over the transformation! I remember your first post about him and thought he was a cool looking horse but DAMN this transformation is AMAZING! You have done so great with him!


    • hellomylivia 09/17/2018 / 10:15 am

      He’s def not going anywhere, I can’t imagine not having him around! He’s too fun to hang out with ❤


  2. Stacie Seidman 09/11/2018 / 8:36 am

    He’s just so perfect ❤ I'm so glad you two found each other.


    • hellomylivia 09/17/2018 / 10:16 am

      I still don’t know how I got so lucky, but I sure am grateful!


  3. HunkyHanoverian 09/11/2018 / 9:44 am

    Wowza!!! You have brought him SO FAR! I just love seeing stuff like this. Rio was also going to be an “investment” horse. I thought I’d be gearing up to sell him at this point. OH HELL NO! The good ones are never for sale!


  4. Centered in the Saddle 09/11/2018 / 10:39 am

    I love seeing the transformation. Gosh, it didn’t even take that long – less than two years?! Amazing. I love Frankie. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Whenever I can buy my own, I’m looking for my Frankie (although I am 100% happy with Duke, who seems like he’s basically the paint, eventing version of Frankie – sweet, lovable, trustworthy, but good at his job and ready to get out there and slay it when the time comes).

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    • hellomylivia 09/17/2018 / 10:16 am

      You already know my thoughts- the world would be a better place if everyone had their own Frankie 😉

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    • hellomylivia 09/17/2018 / 10:17 am

      Homeboy is certainly spoiled, he deserves all the good things ❤


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