Showplace Spring Festival: Return to the Show Ring!

Guys, we went and competed for the first time SINCE LAST JUNE!!! This is by far the longest break Frankie’s had since he came home with me three years ago. While I’m glad we took a little break and I had a ton of fun with my lease mare in Ohio, I can’t tell you how happy I was to hear the buzzer go off with my very favorite horse in the world.

This was a nice soft re-entry to showing for us – we shipped in for the day so it wasn’t a huge long weekend of competing, and just signed up for some 0.90m and 1.0m classes. The plan was to go in for the 0.90m and see how we felt, and continue on to the 1.0m depending on how much energy we had in the tank and how good we were feeling in the ring.

I’ll be honest, I had to give myself a little kick in the seat for a moment. We’ve spent two solid seasons in the 1.10-1.15m classes, and at first I felt a bit silly stepping all the way back to 0.90m. I pretty quickly realized that was my own pride talking, and that emotion has no place in this sport. Neither of us is in peak condition, we’re both rusty in some skills, and this was our first outing of a new season. Keeping the jumps at a height that was very solidly in our comfort zone set us up for a low-stress, confidence-boosting outing. And I’m really glad we did that! It worked just as intended and let us both get out there without pushing unnecessarily hard.

We started off with our 0.90m classes, with our first speed round here:


And our second jumpoff round here:


We warmed up in the pouring rain and despite the weather and the activity, I could literally feel him sharpen up and focus. He very definitely knew he was at a show.

We also then walked in the ring and I almost fell off when he spooked at the starting buzzer. We all started cackling because he was just like WAIT WHAT TIME TO GO LET’S GET OUTTA HERE but is a notoriously bad spooker. As in, he’s very bad at spooking. He doesn’t really commit. The poor guy hasn’t heard a buzzer in nine months, but luckily it must’ve jogged his memory. Once I got my stirrups back he was asking me to go!

I won’t dissect my rounds too much, but I will say that they’re two of the best rounds I’ve ever had in the show ring. Frankie could not have been better: forward, hunting down the jumps, adjustable, jumping well, eager to work, and a downright pleasure to ride. Every single spot flowed up effortlessly because we had such a useful canter to adjust from around the entire course. He gave me every single thing I asked for and felt excited to go do his work.

Even missing one of the inside turns in our speed round got us 3rd (yay speedy Francis!), and an unlucky rail in our second round bumped us to 7th. I ain’t mad, he just got a little traily with his hind end at one jump and the rest of the round was picture perfect. I was beaming.

At that point, I knew that we could go in and beast the 1.0m classes but opted to scratch and be done for the day. He had just given me two beautiful rounds and showed no signs of being tired, so I wanted to keep this as fun and positive and rewarding as possible for him. I had somehow forgotten the way he struts when he’s proud of himself – he absolutely marched back to his stall visibly pleased with himself and being extra playful with me.

I’m absolutely on cloud nine from these rounds. I had very moderate expectations going in – I fully expected our first round to be a little sticky as we both remembered how to navigate. He’d been suuuuper lazy and sluggy the entire week prior, so I was ready to need to really kick him on.

Nope. Right out of the gate, he knew exactly what he was doing. He went around like he shows every single weekend.

Sometimes I think he must read this blog. Remember when I told you that my lease mare in Ohio made me realize how much work Frankie is? I feel like eating those words now. The input I was giving him was so much more subtle than it’s ever had to be, because he had it covered. Based on how sore I am today I know I must’ve been working hard in the moment, but it didn’t feel like work at the time. It felt like a really wonderful back-and-forth as we helped each other out around the course. I’m proud of the way I rode and adjusted to the horse I had under me so that we could support each other like that.

He earned these!

I’m also endlessly grateful that he’s such an easy traveler. We had a lot of difficulties getting another horse on the trailer in the morning, and Frankie handled the commotion around that without blinking. He walked right on and off the trailer, hung out in his stall drinking and eating, and marched right back on the trailer at the end of the day.

I may be projecting, but he seemed happy to get off property and go on a little adventure for the day. He was in full Happy Francis mode all day even in the rain, and just felt good.

Overall, a fantastic re-entry to the show ring with the actual best horse on the planet. I’m so glad we had the chance to get back out there together and have fun! Our tentative plan is to do Blue Rock mid-May, and I’m also planning to do Upperville in early June (duh, can’t miss Upperville). Depending on my school schedule and finances, I’d also love to do Loudoun Benefit the week after Upperville – my trainer and I discussed the possibility of doing the jumpers at Upperville, but then trying out some of the Adult Eq/Medals during LB. I’d love to explore some different types of classes with Frankie!

I’m nursing my horse show hangover but I already can’t wait for the next time. Three years in, and this horse still blows me away every time.

14 thoughts on “Showplace Spring Festival: Return to the Show Ring!

  1. Rachel - For Want of a Horse 04/01/2019 / 8:22 am

    Horse show hangover is real! Congrats on doing your first show this season and in so long! We just did ours not last weekend but the weekend before. I had to check my pride too with the jump sizes. We ended last year on such a bad note with me getting hurt on a fall on schooling day of finals. We had to go back to the basics this year and I was upset that I was only allowed to do my lower division at this show but I think my trainer made the right decision for me. It was a great confidence building show, even though I did still fall off. I love Winifred but it is getting obnoxious that this once 1.2m jumper slams the breaks at a 2’3″ fence if it is not ridden perfectly to the perfect spot! I digress. Lol. I can’t wait to see videos from your shows this summer.


    • hellomylivia 04/03/2019 / 2:44 pm

      It’s all about building positive experiences and confidence, no matter the height! It’s so hard to check pride at the door, but so worth it


  2. Stacie Seidman 04/01/2019 / 9:16 am

    All that homework you guys have been working on has obviously paid off! I don’t think it’s projecting to say that he enjoyed the field trip. Frankie is a show horse, and I think it IS fun for them to get out there and do the thing. Congrats on a great day!


    • hellomylivia 04/03/2019 / 2:45 pm

      I keep thinking back to a few years ago when he was game for shows but still clearly confused by the whole deal – he definitely knows he’s a show pony now!!


  3. carey 04/01/2019 / 2:53 pm

    Awesome! Awesome! Awesome! Show horses gotta show.


    • hellomylivia 04/03/2019 / 2:45 pm

      I love that he seems to have so much fun getting out there!


  4. Liz 04/02/2019 / 6:47 am

    Aw yay! Frankie is the best ever.


  5. Austen 04/03/2019 / 8:53 am

    Yay! I’m so sad I missed you, though!! You were lucky it rained. The dust issue was REAL on Saturday. Haha


    • hellomylivia 04/03/2019 / 2:46 pm

      I’m so bummed we missed you too!! Ah, the glamour of horse shows. You’re either inhaling dust or you’re a sopping wet drowned rat.


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